3 thoughts on “What should I prepare for marriage in southern Fujian”
Judy
There are many kinds of dowry in the wedding of Minnan people, colorful, and colorful. Some of them are eaten, some are worn, and they are also used daily. There are also offers to worship their ancestors and gods. These dowry has its special meaning, which is amazing. And it is divided into a few burdens of one burden! The first is a gift to eat. Among the dowry gifts, the heaviest number of gifts is "pig feet in front of the sedan", which should be two to twenty pounds of legs, weighing ten to twenty pounds to display the amount of gifts. Followed by the "Four Fruit", which is composed of rice gum, winter melon strip, rock sugar, tea, etc., it is called "Four Fruit Sweet", which has the meaning of happiness and sweetness. In addition, there are rural self -made sweets, gimmicks and the like, called "crushing houses", which means to build a family and set up a house. The above things should be packed in two bamboo baskets, tied with red cloth or red note to the hall and the new house to worship in order to give birth to noble children. In addition, you have to prepare foods such as meat, noodles, glutinous rice sweet rice, cigarettes, alcohol and other foods. The second burden is the suitcase of clothes. The things you wear will be relatively simple. Except for the bride's clothes, there are no many clothing. However, in the era of ticket supply, there are eight or ten sets of requirements. At that time, there were commonly known as: "Nylon socks need four doubles, four shirts are really good ..."! It can be seen that the bride's requirements for clothing at the time were tight. Although it is not very particular about the number of clothes, some people have prepared antique red jackets, red skirts, blue cloth gown, white and yellow body (made of white, yellow cloth, two sets of men and women), so that parents will do Shoubai Tang and When he was old in the age of 100, it reflected that the family of men and women had a kindness and family. The third is the most vague in the gift of dowry. There are roughly large red candlers pairs, fragrant numbers, firecrackers counting, red envelopes (called "room head gifts"), and rice cake snacks and other sacrifices. , Tu Gei. Then put in two sophisticated red baskets, which are called "Red Sheng". In the townships near the Hakka family, there are customs to send insured lamps (kerosene lamps) to the men's family, which is the meaning of getting rich for Timing. The most useful things, as large as color TV refrigerators, motorcycles, as small as a needle box, it is really omnipotent. It is known as "three boxes" than traditional. That is, one must be the jewelry box, which is a small item such as the gold and silver jewelry that the parents dowry accompanied by the dowry of the parents to show that the maiden family is rich. The meaning of women; three need to be cut, red ruler, needle and other items such as scissors, red ruler, and needle threads. It has a good bride's skills and diligent meaning. It the barrels (commonly known as "red foot barrel"), pillow pillow towel, towel tooth brush, cup tea set, washbasin and other daily necessities such as bathing (commonly known as "red foot barrel") are all complete. List, but to this day, many customs have been replaced by modern marriage habits.
The five links of the marriage, Dingmeng (engagement), the front of the bridge, the dinner and the return of the relatives (back to the door) are common in the wedding customs of southern Fujian. However, with the development of the times, many processes have entered from Jane, and some families will carry out the Dingmeng and Qianqiao.
1. Before marriage, before marriage in southern Fujian, the man's parents or elders need to be relatives to the woman's house. Generally, two cocks, noodles and eggs are required.
2, Dingmeng (engagement) After the relatives, the man needs to choose Yodaoji to engage in the woman's house. Usually, the parents, the elders of the clan, and the elders of the family, and bring gold and silver jewelry, the candy, and the candy. Cigarettes and funds.
3. The first seven days are called the seven -day market, the five -day market is called five days in advance, and the three -day set is called three days in advance. Essence There are also "flower stacks" merged the delivery gift (Nazeta) together.
4, welcoming and dinner . Before the man welcomed his family, he needed to worship his ancestors first. The bride waited for the groom's team to welcome and blocked the door to play games, such as looking for wedding shoes. Only after promising the series of conditions proposed by the bridesmaid group can enter the wedding room and say goodbye to the woman's parents.
iculfucting the bride into the door, the bridegroom relatives avoided it to avoid each other, and the matchmaker led the groom and the bride to cross the stove (pregnant women could not cross the stove). Go to the new house: The groom and the bride drink sweet tea, eat snacks, eat noodles, come out to see the ancestors and then come out to meet, first elder and then juniors.
5, returning to relatives (back to the door) The next morning, the bride's brother or younger brother invited the bride to go home, the groom's parents gave him a red envelope, and the groom arrived at the bride's house that afternoon. At this time, it is also called the head of the head ", and it can only return to the groom's house after dark. There is a saying that I have started Wusheng Qianpu.
people often say that they are different from ten miles. Wedding customs, and even neighbors next door may be different. The more common rituals include relatives, engagement, welcome relatives and wedding banquets, and return to the door.
General wedding preparation process 1. Wedding preparation
1.1. Determine the wedding date, place, ritual and wedding banquet method 1.2. Determine the wedding budget 1.3. List of guests 1.4. Call a good friend to discuss the wedding plan 1.5. Determine the best man, bridesmaid 1.6. r n 2.1. Communicate with all the projects with the wedding 2.1.1. .1.3. Telephone notify relatives and friends from other places 2.1.4. Relatives and friends attended confirmation 2.1.5. Determine the auxiliary personnel on the day of the wedding, clarify the division of labor (coordination of both men and women, hotel coordination, explosive pyrumone release, hotel welcoming, wedding sign -in, Pleasant candy distribution, wedding scene and hotel hole house layout, wedding car, photography, camera) 2.1.6. Draw the sketch of the on -site Xiyu, indicate the friends and friends of each table 2.1.7. On -site sketches and relatives and friends of all parties on the position of position 2.1.8. Make a happy dying card 2.1.9. Develop a wedding plan, determine the list of relevant personnel and contact information n2.2. Procurement of wedding items 2.2.1. New home furnishing supplies 2.2.1.1. Home appliances, furniture 2.2.1.2. .2.2.1. The groom and bride wedding dress 2.2.2.2. Wedding ring 2.2.2.3. Bride cosmetics 2.2.2.4. Hi post, red envelope, hi character 2.2.2.5.红绸带、彩带、拉花、易拉炮（或花瓣）、彩色气球、蜡烛、阔双面胶及透明胶带、喜庆用品、全套喜字、冷焰火（视情）、 Sign in 2.2.2.2.6. Smoke, alcohol, drink 2.2.2.7. n2.2.2.9. Flowers, fruits
2.3. Preparation of the groom and bride image 2.3.1. The bride started skin care 2.3.2. r n2.4. New house
2.5. Determine the wedding host (or wedding company) 2.5.1. n2.6. Wedding banquet appointment 2.6.1. Estimated the number of guests 2.6.2. R n2.6.5. Confirm the sound effect of the wedding banquet scene 2.6.6. Coordinate with the hotel for details such as the layout of the wedding banquet 2.6.7. Stop the banquet n2.7. Wedding makeup appointment 2.7.1. Choose makeup location 2.7.2. Communication 2.7.3. Confirm the styling on the day of the wedding 2.7.4. Appointment for makeup specific time n2.8. Wedding vehicle appointment 2.8.1. 2.8.2. Appointment for the time and location of the lottery car 2.8.3. Determine the wedding car on the day of the wedding and the required time 2.8.4. Reservation of the wedding car n2.9. Wedding camera appointment 2.9.1. Determine the number of photography and cameras 2.9.2. Equipment 2.9.5. Appointment of photography and camera
2.10. Other 2.10.1. Replace the new banknotes 2.10.2. Prepare the guest room for relatives and friends from afar
3. Prepare the day before the wedding
3.1. Communicate with all the projects of the wedding 3.1.1. Completion of the preparation work with parents 3.1.2. n3.1.4. Communicate again with the best man and bridesmaid 3.1.5. Finally, confirm the help of relatives and friends who helped 3.1.6. n3.2. Confirm the preparation of the spokesman on the wedding day 3.2.1. (View) 3.2.4. When the bride is asked to prepare for the bride 3.2.5. All items preparations on the day 3.3.1. Finally, try all the dresses 3.3.2. All the clothing packaged pockets you want to wear on the wedding day 3.3.3. Prepare two bottles of fake wine r 3.3.4. Preparing the wedding day, the bride and groom's fast food and dry food and the guests' drinks, flowers, flowers, disposable cups 3.3.5. R n3.3.5.1. The bride's new shoes 3.3.5.2. Ring 3.3.5.3. Red envelope 3 .3.5.4. The jewelry to be worn 3.3.5.5. The bride's makeup box 3.3.5.6. Props
3.4. The bride and groom are specially prepared 3.4.1. The groom and bride repeatedly become familiar with the wedding program 3.4.2. Tablet 3.4.4. Preview of the cup of wine 3.4.5. Relax, encourage each other 3.4.6. Pay attention to sleep, rest early
4. The process of the wedding day 4.1. Makeup
4.2. Final confirmation of wedding cars, photography, and camera arrival time 4.2.1. Vehicle arrangement
4.3. n 4.3.1. Go to the bride's home 4.3.1.1 The groom is ready for flowers, red envelopes 4.3.1.2 Tell the bride before going out Welcome to the firecrackers 4.3.1.4 Before entering the door, the bride and friend of the bride and friends in the front of the door to obstruct (optional), plug red envelope bar 4.3.1.5 bride question Women's parents of tea, group photo 4.3.1.7 longan, lotus heart, red dates (Mizutu egg) soup (depending on customs) 4.3.1.8 Bay goodbye to their parents before going out Women's parents blessings 4.3.1.9 Inframethrough
4.3.2. .2 Men's parents are going to meet the red envelope 4.3.2.3 The bride to give the men's parents' tea, group photo 4.3.2.4 桂., Lotus Xin, red dates (Mizutu Egg) soup (depending on customs) 4 .3.2.5 Farewell to the parents before going out, the blessing of the man's parents 4.3.2.6 Firecrackers 4.3.3. .4.1. Take sugar, smoke, alcohol, tea, drinks, candles, etc. to the hotel wedding room 4.4.2. Details
4.5. Hotel welcome 4.5.1. The groom and bride to rest in the hotel, make up 4.5.2. The door of the guest personnel is position 4.5.4. The groom and bride gome bridesmaid door welcome
4.6. Wedding ceremony (appreciated by the wedding company) 4.6.1. Moderator preparation, audio audio Preparation, ring preparation, petal, ribbon preparation 4.6.2. Zoule, newcomer enters the venue, ribbon (petals) 4.6.3. Lord Introduction to the person 4.6.4. The master's speech 4.6.5. Newcomer parents came to power 4.6.6. n4.6.8. Newcomers open Champagne, cut cakes, drink a glass of wine 4.7. Wedding banquet 4.8. n5. End of the wedding project 5.1 Benefits and bridesmaids led the preparatory group to find another place for project summary
There are many kinds of dowry in the wedding of Minnan people, colorful, and colorful. Some of them are eaten, some are worn, and they are also used daily. There are also offers to worship their ancestors and gods. These dowry has its special meaning, which is amazing. And it is divided into a few burdens of one burden! The first is a gift to eat. Among the dowry gifts, the heaviest number of gifts is "pig feet in front of the sedan", which should be two to twenty pounds of legs, weighing ten to twenty pounds to display the amount of gifts. Followed by the "Four Fruit", which is composed of rice gum, winter melon strip, rock sugar, tea, etc., it is called "Four Fruit Sweet", which has the meaning of happiness and sweetness. In addition, there are rural self -made sweets, gimmicks and the like, called "crushing houses", which means to build a family and set up a house. The above things should be packed in two bamboo baskets, tied with red cloth or red note to the hall and the new house to worship in order to give birth to noble children. In addition, you have to prepare foods such as meat, noodles, glutinous rice sweet rice, cigarettes, alcohol and other foods.
The second burden is the suitcase of clothes. The things you wear will be relatively simple. Except for the bride's clothes, there are no many clothing. However, in the era of ticket supply, there are eight or ten sets of requirements. At that time, there were commonly known as: "Nylon socks need four doubles, four shirts are really good ..."! It can be seen that the bride's requirements for clothing at the time were tight. Although it is not very particular about the number of clothes, some people have prepared antique red jackets, red skirts, blue cloth gown, white and yellow body (made of white, yellow cloth, two sets of men and women), so that parents will do Shoubai Tang and When he was old in the age of 100, it reflected that the family of men and women had a kindness and family.
The third is the most vague in the gift of dowry. There are roughly large red candlers pairs, fragrant numbers, firecrackers counting, red envelopes (called "room head gifts"), and rice cake snacks and other sacrifices. , Tu Gei. Then put in two sophisticated red baskets, which are called "Red Sheng". In the townships near the Hakka family, there are customs to send insured lamps (kerosene lamps) to the men's family, which is the meaning of getting rich for Timing. The most useful things, as large as color TV refrigerators, motorcycles, as small as a needle box, it is really omnipotent. It is known as "three boxes" than traditional. That is, one must be the jewelry box, which is a small item such as the gold and silver jewelry that the parents dowry accompanied by the dowry of the parents to show that the maiden family is rich. The meaning of women; three need to be cut, red ruler, needle and other items such as scissors, red ruler, and needle threads. It has a good bride's skills and diligent meaning.
It the barrels (commonly known as "red foot barrel"), pillow pillow towel, towel tooth brush, cup tea set, washbasin and other daily necessities such as bathing (commonly known as "red foot barrel") are all complete. List, but to this day, many customs have been replaced by modern marriage habits.
The five links of the marriage, Dingmeng (engagement), the front of the bridge, the dinner and the return of the relatives (back to the door) are common in the wedding customs of southern Fujian. However, with the development of the times, many processes have entered from Jane, and some families will carry out the Dingmeng and Qianqiao.
1. Before marriage, before marriage in southern Fujian, the man's parents or elders need to be relatives to the woman's house. Generally, two cocks, noodles and eggs are required.
2, Dingmeng (engagement)
After the relatives, the man needs to choose Yodaoji to engage in the woman's house. Usually, the parents, the elders of the clan, and the elders of the family, and bring gold and silver jewelry, the candy, and the candy. Cigarettes and funds.
3. The first seven days are called the seven -day market, the five -day market is called five days in advance, and the three -day set is called three days in advance. Essence There are also "flower stacks" merged the delivery gift (Nazeta) together.
4, welcoming and dinner
. Before the man welcomed his family, he needed to worship his ancestors first. The bride waited for the groom's team to welcome and blocked the door to play games, such as looking for wedding shoes. Only after promising the series of conditions proposed by the bridesmaid group can enter the wedding room and say goodbye to the woman's parents.
iculfucting the bride into the door, the bridegroom relatives avoided it to avoid each other, and the matchmaker led the groom and the bride to cross the stove (pregnant women could not cross the stove). Go to the new house: The groom and the bride drink sweet tea, eat snacks, eat noodles, come out to see the ancestors and then come out to meet, first elder and then juniors.
5, returning to relatives (back to the door)
The next morning, the bride's brother or younger brother invited the bride to go home, the groom's parents gave him a red envelope, and the groom arrived at the bride's house that afternoon. At this time, it is also called the head of the head ", and it can only return to the groom's house after dark. There is a saying that I have started Wusheng Qianpu.
people often say that they are different from ten miles. Wedding customs, and even neighbors next door may be different. The more common rituals include relatives, engagement, welcome relatives and wedding banquets, and return to the door.
General wedding preparation process
1. Wedding preparation
1.1. Determine the wedding date, place, ritual and wedding banquet method
1.2. Determine the wedding budget
1.3. List of guests
1.4. Call a good friend to discuss the wedding plan
1.5. Determine the best man, bridesmaid
1.6. r n
2.1. Communicate with all the projects with the wedding
2.1.1. .1.3. Telephone notify relatives and friends from other places
2.1.4. Relatives and friends attended confirmation
2.1.5. Determine the auxiliary personnel on the day of the wedding, clarify the division of labor (coordination of both men and women, hotel coordination, explosive pyrumone release, hotel welcoming, wedding sign -in, Pleasant candy distribution, wedding scene and hotel hole house layout, wedding car, photography, camera)
2.1.6. Draw the sketch of the on -site Xiyu, indicate the friends and friends of each table
2.1.7. On -site sketches and relatives and friends of all parties on the position of position
2.1.8. Make a happy dying card
2.1.9. Develop a wedding plan, determine the list of relevant personnel and contact information
n2.2. Procurement of wedding items
2.2.1. New home furnishing supplies
2.2.1.1. Home appliances, furniture
2.2.1.2. .2.2.1. The groom and bride wedding dress
2.2.2.2. Wedding ring
2.2.2.3. Bride cosmetics
2.2.2.4. Hi post, red envelope, hi character
2.2.2.5.红绸带、彩带、拉花、易拉炮（或花瓣）、彩色气球、蜡烛、阔双面胶及透明胶带、喜庆用品、全套喜字、冷焰火（视情）、 Sign in
2.2.2.2.6. Smoke, alcohol, drink
2.2.2.7. n2.2.2.9. Flowers, fruits
2.3. Preparation of the groom and bride image
2.3.1. The bride started skin care
2.3.2. r n2.4. New house
2.5. Determine the wedding host (or wedding company)
2.5.1. n2.6. Wedding banquet appointment
2.6.1. Estimated the number of guests
2.6.2. R n2.6.5. Confirm the sound effect of the wedding banquet scene
2.6.6. Coordinate with the hotel for details such as the layout of the wedding banquet
2.6.7. Stop the banquet
n2.7. Wedding makeup appointment
2.7.1. Choose makeup location
2.7.2. Communication
2.7.3. Confirm the styling on the day of the wedding
2.7.4. Appointment for makeup specific time
n2.8. Wedding vehicle appointment
2.8.1.
2.8.2. Appointment for the time and location of the lottery car
2.8.3. Determine the wedding car on the day of the wedding and the required time
2.8.4. Reservation of the wedding car
n2.9. Wedding camera appointment
2.9.1. Determine the number of photography and cameras
2.9.2. Equipment
2.9.5. Appointment of photography and camera
2.10. Other
2.10.1. Replace the new banknotes
2.10.2. Prepare the guest room for relatives and friends from afar
3. Prepare the day before the wedding
3.1. Communicate with all the projects of the wedding
3.1.1. Completion of the preparation work with parents
3.1.2. n3.1.4. Communicate again with the best man and bridesmaid
3.1.5. Finally, confirm the help of relatives and friends who helped
3.1.6. n3.2. Confirm the preparation of the spokesman on the wedding day
3.2.1. (View)
3.2.4. When the bride is asked to prepare for the bride
3.2.5. All items preparations on the day
3.3.1. Finally, try all the dresses
3.3.2. All the clothing packaged pockets you want to wear on the wedding day
3.3.3. Prepare two bottles of fake wine r
3.3.4. Preparing the wedding day, the bride and groom's fast food and dry food and the guests' drinks, flowers, flowers, disposable cups
3.3.5. R n3.3.5.1. The bride's new shoes
3.3.5.2. Ring
3.3.5.3. Red envelope
3 .3.5.4. The jewelry to be worn
3.3.5.5. The bride's makeup box
3.3.5.6. Props
3.4. The bride and groom are specially prepared
3.4.1. The groom and bride repeatedly become familiar with the wedding program
3.4.2. Tablet
3.4.4. Preview of the cup of wine
3.4.5. Relax, encourage each other
3.4.6. Pay attention to sleep, rest early
4. The process of the wedding day
4.1. Makeup
4.2. Final confirmation of wedding cars, photography, and camera arrival time
4.2.1. Vehicle arrangement
4.3. n
4.3.1. Go to the bride's home
4.3.1.1 The groom is ready for flowers, red envelopes
4.3.1.2 Tell the bride before going out Welcome to the firecrackers
4.3.1.4 Before entering the door, the bride and friend of the bride and friends in the front of the door to obstruct (optional), plug red envelope bar
4.3.1.5 bride question Women's parents of tea, group photo
4.3.1.7 longan, lotus heart, red dates (Mizutu egg) soup (depending on customs)
4.3.1.8 Bay goodbye to their parents before going out Women's parents blessings
4.3.1.9 Inframethrough
4.3.2. .2 Men's parents are going to meet the red envelope
4.3.2.3 The bride to give the men's parents' tea, group photo
4.3.2.4 桂., Lotus Xin, red dates (Mizutu Egg) soup (depending on customs)
4 .3.2.5 Farewell to the parents before going out, the blessing of the man's parents
4.3.2.6 Firecrackers
4.3.3. .4.1. Take sugar, smoke, alcohol, tea, drinks, candles, etc. to the hotel wedding room
4.4.2. Details
4.5. Hotel welcome
4.5.1. The groom and bride to rest in the hotel, make up
4.5.2. The door of the guest personnel is position
4.5.4. The groom and bride gome bridesmaid door welcome
4.6. Wedding ceremony (appreciated by the wedding company)
4.6.1. Moderator preparation, audio audio Preparation, ring preparation, petal, ribbon preparation
4.6.2. Zoule, newcomer enters the venue, ribbon (petals)
4.6.3. Lord Introduction to the person
4.6.4. The master's speech
4.6.5. Newcomer parents came to power
4.6.6. n4.6.8. Newcomers open Champagne, cut cakes, drink a glass of wine
4.7. Wedding banquet
4.8. n5. End of the wedding project
5.1 Benefits and bridesmaids led the preparatory group to find another place for project summary
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